If there is one lesson I can never seem to learn, it’s that email is the absolutely worst way to resolve a conflict.
Email from Inga (written in a normal somewhat-pleading voice:): Looking forward to seeing you at Finch’s on Tuesday! Lots to catch up on! I am wondering if any errands could possibly be done after lunch rather than before? As you know, I have an appointment at 1:30 so I really want to maximize our time together!